When you enter a relationship, you will be on your best behavior, and you will stay that way until you are used to and more comfortable with your partner. And you will also see that your partner does the same, as they will be on their best behavior as they begin to date you for the first few months until they become more comfortable.
Then what happens is that you will start to see things in your partner that you do not like, and vice versa. Your true colors begin to show, and so do their true colors. Let’s now go over the bad relationship habits of each sign, so your partner knows what to expect of you, and you know what to expect of them!
Aries – Can Throw Tantrums
Aries, your passionate side, likely attracted your partner because that is an intriguing part of you. However, if you don’t get what you want when you want it, your temper will flare, and you will say things that you regret.
When you are having a heated moment, you will upset your partner, but you will make a fool of yourself. That is a bad habit that you cannot seem to control. After you cool down, you are full of regret and apologies for allowing your temper to get out of hand.
Taurus – Inflexibility
Taurus, you are loyal and committed in your relationships, and you are also very trustworthy. Your tenacity is admirable, too. However, what is behind determination? Stubbornness and obstinance. And unfortunately, your lousy relationship habit is that you have an “all or nothing” or “black and white” attitude.
There is no in-between and no gray areas. You are the “my way or the highway” type. You will not be open to hearing your partner’s opinion if it is different from yours, and you are also not flexible when it comes to changing routines because you need that comfort. Those bad relationship habits will cause a lot of strain in the relationship.
Gemini – Lack Of Focus
Gemini, you are a fantastic multitasker, and you are fascinating. Your partner became attracted to you because you are an excellent communicator, and you have things to talk about with them. You are also the one with so many things to focus on as you have your hobbies, friends, work, family, and partner.
But the issue is that you are not focused enough on your partner at times, which makes them feel like they are not important to you. You spread yourself thin, and that is why you are like that, and your partner will have to have many talks with you about how they need to be a priority in your life.
Cancer – Too Moody
Cancer, your partner is lucky to have you because they will get all of the nurturing in the world that you can offer. And you can reassure them that you will always be loyal to them, and they will believe it. However, the one issue that your partner gets annoyed with you is when you suddenly become moody.
Your moods can change in a heartbeat as you are highly emotional. All it takes is for your partner to say the wrong thing, and you will either overreact by crying and yelling, or you may pull the silent treatment. Your moodiness can be a source of conflict in your relationship.
Leo – Too Controlling At Times
Leo, you are incredibly generous and warm, which is what attracted your partner to you in the first place. However, you are the one who likes to be in the spotlight, and you will love your partner to join in, but if you feel that your partner is stealing your spotlight, then you become possessive and jealous, and you can even be controlling.
You will tell your partner what and what not to do and they will not appreciate that. Therefore, this trait of yours can be a significant source of argument.
Virgo – Obsessed With Fixing Things
Virgo, you are not the emotional type, and that is why you will attract those who can understand that as you show your love in other ways, such as being of service and helping them in ways they need it. You know that you can be overly analytical, and you may be somewhat critical, but if your partner clarifies they will not tolerate it, you will apologize and stop.
However, you would be happiest if you had perfection, which is why you will be obsessed with fixing things. If you fixate on situations such as the dishes not being put away correctly, or the way they fold their clothes, then that is a huge source of an argument right there. That terrible habit can throw a wrench into your relationship.
Libra – Brews With Resentments Because Of Fear Of Conflict
Libra, you are the one that can be very charming and you are very diplomatic, and you are all about balance. However, you also do not like conflict, and you shy away from it to avoid it. And the truth is in every relationship, there has to be conflict because communication is what makes the relationship healthy.
It is not realistic for the couple to agree on everything. But you will please your partner if you are not happy with what they want by agreeing with them. And what happens is you become passive-aggressive as you brew with resentment. Then your partner catches on that you are not happy, and you have an explosion.
Scorpio – Becomes Possessive
Scorpio, you are naturally distrusting until you find a reason to trust, and that is how you end up in a relationship. Your partner eventually earns your trust. However, if you sense that your partner is not being sincere or is not giving you the attention you need, you will end up becoming possessive as you are paranoid they are doing something behind your back.
You will text them all of the time at work, and you will not want to give them privacy. That will turn into arguments because chances are your partner is not doing anything behind your back.
Sagittarius – Does Not Like Responsibility
Sagittarius, you need excitement to be on so many adventures. Therefore, you do not like commitment unless it comes to being with a partner that enjoys traveling and excitement as much as you do. In that case, you welcome a relationship, but the truth is, you cannot be traveling and going on one adventure all of the time.
Sometimes you need to stick around because there are responsibilities that you need to face aside from work. Therefore, if your partner needs you to help with something and stick around, you would instead go on a trip or even on a day adventure around town.
Capricorn – Can Be Pushy
Capricorn, you are driven, and you are incredibly ambitious. Therefore, you will only develop a relationship with someone who shares the same mindset regarding going after goals and ambitions as you. You will not stand for someone who has no ambitions and is lazy.
However, even when you find that partner who shares the same mindset as you regarding goals and ambitions, you tend to push them too much. You forget that everyone works and strives to achieve their goals at their pace, which may be slower than yours. If you push them to work quicker, they will only resent you. Let them work at the pace that is right for them, and you do you!
Aquarius – Forgets That They Have A Partner Often
Aquarius, you march to your beat, and you are progressive. You are also a humanitarian, and you want to help make the world a better place. You are very independent as you love your freedom, but at the same time, you do get lonely and want a relationship.
However, the common problem you end up with is that you get so caught up in wanting to help improve the world that you do not make time for your partner. You may at times forget you have a partner. They have every right to be angry with you. You make up for your mistake by focusing on them after, but it often happens enough.
Pisces – Poor Communication And Not Always Reliable
Pisces, you care about your partner, and you are a true romantic. However, you are not always in tune with reality, becoming very dreamy. You know how to win your partner, but once you are in a committed relationship, your partner will see your bad relationship habits. Firstly, you may forget a date that you set with your partner, and when your partner asks why you are not somewhere they are expecting you, you may be running errands – because you forgot.
You will also not be the one to face up to a conflict if one arises, which gives you something in common with Libra. That is not facing battles and running away from them. If you do not be mindful of these issues, your partner will not want to stay with you.
Everyone has their issues regarding their relationships as everyone has some bad habits. You are human, so you are not going to be perfect. There is only so much your partner will be patient with yours, and there is only so much you can take when it comes to your partner’s poor relationship habits. However, the best thing you can do is stay a work in progress. Work on your habits, and do your best. If your partner sees that, they will respect and love you for it. And you would also feel the same if you saw your partner working hard on their issues!