While the Virgo is also known as “the virgin,” don’t let the title fool you. The symbol is meant to be represented as complicated like most Virgo creatures are.
Beneath the outskirts of every astrological symbol lies a dark, buried truth, but it helps to make your Virgo diverse, and great in bed. As a mutable sign, there are many variations, though some traits will likely be strong in all people who identify as Virgo.
Dating a Virgo helped me become a better person because they really pushed me to be all that I can be. It’s a cliche when people say their mate will bring out the best in them, but Virgos often do.
Here are five ways dating a Virgo made me a better person:
1. Sense of Security
Virgos are great because they love to provide for their mate. They are the sign that you can call “your rock.” As the sign of service, they like to please and will do whatever they can to ensure that their mate is satisfied on multiple levels.
Virgo is picky and doesn’t stick around anywhere too long unless they really want to, which is why when they pick you, you know you’ve got security for life.
Virgo is out for perfection, and when they find it they will not let it go. Virgos also really enjoy alone time; they can’t stand most people for too long, but if they can stand you, you know you’ve found a keeper.
2. Keep You Grounded
Virgo will keep your head in the game, especially when you start to check out.
Virgo will demand a certain level of control within the relationship. Virgo is also known to be firstly and formally loyal to themselves, meaning your Virgo will have to be in good spirits in order to maintain his level of grounding.
Virgo will be the first to call someone out (or talk to you privately) about how they didn’t like something. They can’t help it; Virgo is a bit judgmental and critical by nature; they see the good, the bad with the ugly.
Though their intentions always come from a moral, good-natured place, Virgo doesn’t want beef, but they do expect you to keep their trust. As stubborn as most Virgos are, they will be stubborn about keeping you two in a healthy place. Simply put, Virgo won’t be afraid to tell you when you are wrong.
3. Safe Haven
Virgo is that lover that you can have secrets with, in fact, you will likely have many. Virgos like to dish, but they don’t want just anyone to know.
Very few Virgos like other people to know their business, and they usually keep a low profile on social media. They aren’t the type to share their phones or their personal passwords.
They will, however, be your best friend and your best companion, and the person you just want to tell everything to. You want your Virgo’s opinion because it really means something and holds a great deal of value. Virgo is that safe haven you can come home to, and if they really love you, they will take care of you and do whatever they can to cheer you up.
You might find this side of them to be a bit annoying, but Virgos always mean well when trying to get you to be a bit more organized.
Likely, a Virgo has nagged at you about things so many times that you eventually start doing them. Or you find yourself doing things that don’t bother you, but you know will bother your Virgo. Not all Virgos are neat freaks, though many are organized in their own way. Stereotypically, Virgo likes things nice and orderly. Virgo is disgusted by mess, likes things clean, and is prone to showering and bathing.
5. You Know It’s The Real Deal
Many Virgo males are known to marry late, and some are known to never marry at all. This is how you know you’ve found a true partner in your Virgo; they take their time with the selection process.
Virgo isn’t easily impressed, and they need to meet someone who really makes a difference in their life. Virgo is constantly working on self-improvement, and they like a partner who will show them a different perspective, but also someone who wants to make changes for the better.
They want to be adored, but they also wanted to be challenged. Virgo is looking for more than just eye candy, but regardless, a good heart is a must.
There is no sign as real or as classic as a Virgo. While many are known to be well-dressed and have fine taste, Virgo will know how to wine and dine you.
Many Virgos are highly introverted, but the outgoing Virgo will charm your friends and family, and the shy Virgo will quickly earn their trust. Virgos know what matters in life, and are not afraid to work hard to ensure they continue to achieve life success.